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. 2021 Aug 9;16(8):587–590. doi: 10.1089/bfm.2021.29188.abm

Table 1.

Suggested Terms in Breastfeeding and Human Lactation

Traditional terms Gender-inclusive terms Clinical contexts
mother, father, birth mother parent, gestational parent; combinations may be used for clarity, such as “mothers and gestational parents” Ask the patient(s) for their affirmed terminology
she, her, hers
he, him, his
they/them, (if gender is not specified)
breast mammary gland
breastfeeding breastfeeding, chestfeeding, lactating, expressing, pumping, human milk feeding
breast milk milk, human milk, mother's own milk, parent's milk, father's milk
breastfeeding mother or nursing mother lactating parent, lactating person; combinations may be used for clarity, such as “breastfeeding mothers and lactating parents”
born male/female (as applied to people who identify as anything but cisgender) noted as male/female at birth or recorded as male/female at birth or assigned male/female at birth  

The terms on the left are not incorrect and are appropriate in many settings, but terms in the middle column are suitable substitutes when gender-inclusive language is appropriate.