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. 2022 Apr 8;13:784675. doi: 10.3389/fpsyg.2022.784675
1. Interviewer: How do you feel towards your wife?
2. Fahrin: Do I love my wife? Well, when it comes to feeling mmm yea I care
3. for her but it’s not to the extent that I love her. Because sometimes
4. relationship if it is real, it’s about loving each other, right. But
5. perhaps I- have not loved her to that extent. I merely care for her.
6. Just merely-how shall I say this ek? Maybe if- if I were with a man,
7. maybe I will have that feeling of care and love, right. Because
8. maybe she does not show- aaa… how shall I say this- aaa… efforts
9. to make me love her. To love and care for her, she does not do
10. things to make me love her.
11. Interviewer: So, she does not show her emotion is it?
12. Fahrin: Maybe she does not follow- for me she does not- how shall I say
13. this ek- she does not follow what I want. I’m a bit particular because
14. sometimes I want this and that, I want this thing to be done like this,
15. so there are a lot of things she cannot follow so this makes it difficult.
16. Interviewer: What are the examples of things you want?
17. Fahrin: For example, ala just simple things like what- like doing the laundry
18. it should be done like this. Or like folding the clothes, it should be
19. done like that, these are the examples. Because she- my wife- she
20. is more- like what ek- she’s not really good in doing chores. Doing
21. household chores I mean. Usually for people like me, she should
22. please through things like these. When she can do those things, I would be like oooh- I’d love her. When I need to teach her those
23. things, it would be a bit difficult.