I. In search of a lost identity
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Straying from the path |
“I can't explain it anyway, I went from all to nothing and I never thought I would get to this point” (Leila). |
Becoming a stranger to oneself |
“I don't even know who I am anymore, I've changed too much, I don't know how I would react to certain situations, I feel like I'm lying to myself” (Akash). |
II. Suspending autonomy and empowerment
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Experiences of parental pressure |
“In the Middle East, to be successful, there are two jobs. Ideally either an engineer or a doctor. [Leaving medicine] was an atomic bomb. I was the hope of generations” (Amina). |
Distancing oneself from familial roots |
“[My father] has a strong accent. It bothers me. When he speaks in Arabic in front of my friends, I don't know, it's embarrassing. I'm ashamed of him” (Said). |
III. Challenges integrating into the host society
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Wanting to keep the peace |
“Everyone needs a group of peers, not necessarily friends, but a group they can relate to. A group reassures you, a group makes you feel that you exist in society. When you are not part of society you feel a bit rejected” (Najib). |
Envisioning hope: a cross-cultural integration into society |
“What I would like to study is something where my Spanish language is an advantage” (Joseph). |