| 1. When things don’t go well, I don’t blame myself. | This is not an issue for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 2. When trying new things, I do all of the following: I am patient with myself and don’t expect myself to get things right away I feel comfortable pushing myself beyond my comfort zone I can be flexible with my plans and expectations. |
This is a strength for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 3. My baby and I are bonding. | This is going well for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 4. Most of the time my baby’s crying doesn’t overwhelm me. | This is a strength for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 5. Most of the time I am able to calm myself down when I have strong emotions (such as stress, worries, anger) or distressing thoughts. | This is a strength for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 6. I have people in my life that help to make sure I’m taking care of myself. For example, people in my life check-in with me about taking care of myself, or they help me to take care of myself by doing things like watching the baby. | This is going well for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 7. I am able to get the materials I need to take care of the baby and myself (such as diapers and food). | This is not an issue for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 8. I am getting more experienced with taking care of my baby. | This is going well for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 9. When I do things well, I am able to give myself credit for it. | This is a strength for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 10. If you have people in your life who help and support you: when I am talking to people in my life who help or support me, I do all of the following: I can be open and honest I can trust people to help me I can ask for help and take help when it is offered |
This is a strength for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 11. I have been able to get my baby into a routine. | This is going well for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 12. When I have a question about parenting or early motherhood, I know how to get an answer that I trust. | This is going well for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 13. I am involved in activities outside of the house (such as friendships, hobbies, professional or volunteer work). | This is going well for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 14. I know myself (when I need to ask for help, what I need, what makes me feel better when I feel down, worried, or stressed). | This is a strength for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 15. My home environment is safe and stable. | This is not an issue for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 16. I know that taking care of myself is important, and guilt does not get in the way of taking care of my own needs. | This is a strength for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 17. I am able to sleep at night when my baby is sleeping. | This is going well for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 18. When thinking about social pressures, I don’t do any of the following: feel like I have to reach the expectations of others worry about other people’s judgments of me compare myself to others. |
This is a strength for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 19. I plan and manage time well. | This is a strength for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 20. I have people in my life that I can talk to openly and honestly about my feelings and experiences. | This is not an issue for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 21. I have people to help me with childcare and household management (cooking, cleaning, shopping, etc.). | This is not an issue for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 22. I understand what my baby is trying to tell me (through their cries, body language, etc.). | This is a strength for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 23. If you or your co-parent are currently working: my workplace/my partner’s workplace has been understanding and flexible since I have had my baby. | This is not an issue for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |
| 24. I am not experiencing physical pain or discomfort. | This is not an issue for me. | This is going ok for me, but could be better. | I’d like help with this. |