Table 1.
The dataset attribute details.
| Question no. | Question by the specialist |
|---|---|
| 1 | If one of us apologizes when our discussion deteriorates, the discussion ends. |
| 2 | I know we can ignore our differences, even if things get hard sometimes. |
| 3 | When we need it, we can take our discussions with my spouse from the beginning and correct them. |
| 4 | When I discuss this with my spouse, contacting him will eventually work. |
| 5 | The time I spent with my wife is special for us. |
| 6 | We don't have time at home as partners. |
| 7 | We are like two strangers who share the same environment at home rather than family. |
| 8 | I enjoy our holidays with my wife. |
| 9 | I enjoy traveling with my wife. |
| 10 | Most of our goals are common to my spouse. |
| 11 | I think that one day in the future when I look back, I see that my spouse and I have been in harmony with each other. |
| 12 | My spouse and I have similar values in terms of personal freedom. |
| 13 | My spouse and I have a similar sense of entertainment. |
| 14 | Most of our goals for people (children, friends, etc.,) are the same. |
| 15 | Our dreams with my spouse are similar and harmonious. |
| 16 | We're compatible with my spouse about what love should be. |
| 17 | We share the same views about being happy in our life with my spouse. |
| 18 | My spouse and I have similar ideas about how marriage should be. |
| 19 | My spouse and I have similar ideas about how roles should be in marriage. |
| 20 | My spouse and I have similar values in trust. |
| 21 | I know exactly what my wife likes. |
| 22 | I know how my spouse wants to be taken care of when she/he is sick. |
| 23 | I know my spouse's favorite food. |
| 24 | I can tell you what kind of stress my spouse is facing in her/his life. |
| 25 | I know my spouse's inner world. |
| 26 | I know my spouse's basic anxiety. |
| 27 | I know what my spouse's current sources of stress are. |
| 28 | I know my spouse's hopes and wishes. |
| 29 | I know my spouse very well. |
| 30 | I know my spouse's friends and their social relationships. |
| 31 | I feel aggressive when I argue with my spouse. |
| 32 | When discussing with my spouse, I usually use expressions such as “you always” or “you never.” |
| 33 | I can use negative statements about my spouse's personality during our discussions. |
| 34 | I can use offensive expressions during our discussion. |
| 35 | I can insult my spouse during our discussion. |
| 36 | It can be humiliating when we have discussions. |
| 37 | My discussion with my spouse is not calm. |
| 38 | I hate my spouse's way of opening a subject. |
| 39 | Our discussions often occur suddenly. |
| 40 | We're just starting a discussion before I know what's going on. |
| 41 | When I talk to my spouse about something, my calm suddenly breaks. |
| 42 | When I argue with my spouse, I only go out and I do not say a word. |
| 43 | I mostly stay silent to calm the environment a little. |
| 44 | Sometimes I think it's good for me to leave home for a while. |
| 45 | I'd rather stay silent than discuss it with my spouse. |
| 46 | Even if I'm right in the discussion, I stay silent to hurt my spouse. |
| 47 | When I discuss this with my spouse, I stay silent because I am afraid of not being able to control my anger. |
| 48 | I feel right in our discussions. |
| 49 | I have nothing to do with what I have been accused of. |
| 50 | I'm not the one who's guilty of what I am accused of. |
| 51 | I'm not the one who's wrong about problems at home. |
| 52 | I wouldn't hesitate to tell my spouse about her/his inadequacy. |
| 53 | When I discuss, I remind my spouse of her/his inadequacy. |
| 54 | I'm not afraid to tell my spouse about her/his incompetence. |