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. Author manuscript; available in PMC: 2023 Oct 1.
Published in final edited form as: J Am Geriatr Soc. 2022 Aug 16;70(10):3006–3011. doi: 10.1111/jgs.18000

Table 1:

Preparing Caregivers for Surrogate Decision Making to Prevent Adverse Caregiver Outcomes

Task Words to Use
Identify and overcome barriers to communication
[PT]: Are you able to talk with [CG] about your concerns/hopes/wishes …
  • …if your heath were to get worse
  • …about the end of your life
Can we arrange for [CG] to come to your next appointment?
[CG}: I’d like to use today’s visit so that [PT} can start to talk to you about things that are important to [PT]. While these can be hard to discuss, knowing these things will make it easier if you ever have to make a decision on [PT’s} behalf.
Encourage [PT] to tell a story of how the final chapter of life might look, exploring effects on [CG]
[PT]: Have you thought about how you would like things to go if you got very sick and it looked like you might not recover?
  • Where care would be delivered
  • Consideration of loves ones’ needs
[CG}: I need you think about what [PT] has just said about (wanting to die at home) (never wanting to go to a nursing home). Can we talk about what could get in the way of your being able to make that happen?
Anticipate the factors that might enter into surrogate decisions
[PT]: At a time when you get very sick, the doctors might make recommendations based on the symptoms you are having or the likelihood that treatments will help. How do you feel about [CG[ using these recommendations?
[CG}: How do you think you can use what you know about [PT] and what the doctors will be telling you if you need to make a decision for [PT]?

PT = Patient CG = Caregiver