Table 3.
Constituents and subconstituents for mothers’ experiences of academic socialization
| Constituents | Subconstituents |
|---|---|
| 1. Mother’s High Academic Expectations and Determination for Parenting Roles | Emphasizing the mother’s educational views to the child |
| Mother’s wish for the child’s prosperous and stable life | |
| Mother’s high expectations for academic achievement | |
| The child’s education becoming a top priority in the mother’s life | |
| 2. Adjustment of Expectations and Interventions through Trial and Error | Providing academic and career guidance in consideration of the child’s disposition |
| Differing approaches due to the gender of the child | |
| Worrying due to unexpected outcomes of the child | |
| Not intervening with the child who does well on his or her own | |
| Comparisons made between siblings | |
| The passion for education poured into the first child | |
| Being sensitive to grades after seeing a report card | |
| Setting realistic expectations for the child’s grades | |
| 3. Transfer of Attitudes and Values for Academic Performance to Child | Creating a learning atmosphere for the child |
| Emphasizing time management for the child’s learning | |
| Teaching learning strategies to the child | |
| 4. Mother’s Desire for Approval Revealed through Competition with Other Parents | Reluctantly pushing and pressuring children into competition |
| Getting caught up in competition and being anxious | |
| Discovering the child experiencing challenges | |
| Strongly intervening to keep the child competitive | |
| Discovering mother’s own need to win competitions over others through her child | |
| 5. Child’s Superior Academic Achievement Serving as a Testament to the Mother’ Ability and Self-worth | The mother’s pride determined by child’s grades |
| The mother’s wishes for her child to realize her own unaccomplished dreams | |
| Trial to validate herself as a successful mother through the child’s grades | |
| 6. Dissonance between Mother and Child Seen as Struggles for Control | Mother’s discovery of herself in controlling the child through the academic intervention process |
| Manipulating the child to follow her will | |
| Getting frustrated due to an uncontrolled child | |
| 7. Mother’s Role as a Supporter of the Child’s Decisions and Efforts | Trusting the child’s decisions and efforts |
| Taking pride in the child who is doing well | |
| Respecting the child’s decisions | |
| Letting the child get his or her way after experiencing conflict | |
| Trying to maintain a good relationship with the child | |
| 8. Career Decisions Made by Mother rather than Child | Parents’ career proposal considering only employment and economic factors |
| Career intervention without considering the child’s aptitude | |
| Ignoring the child’s career preferences | |
| Mother playing a leading role in educational decisions | |
| Relying on the husband’s realistic judgment | |
| 9. Priority of Maintaining Academic Competitiveness rather than Taking Care of Mental Health | Superficial perception of the psychological difficulties experienced by the child |
| Being cautious not to add extra pressure to the stress experienced by the child | |
| Consoling the child to get through the challenging process | |
| 10. Parents’ Support through Shadow Education to Strengthen Child’s Competitiveness | Providing shadow education to promote academic achievement |
| Believing in the effects of shadow education | |
| Forming networks to provide quality shadow education | |
| Doing everything possible for the academic achievement of the child | |
| Feeling of her limited capacity to help the child with academic performance | |
| Trying to imitate other mothers with high achievers | |
| Attending parent meetings to have access to valuable information about shadow education | |
| Being excluded from networks composed of mothers of high achievers | |
| Being influenced by external environments | |
| 11. Use of External Professional Resources to Cope with Academic Crises | Use of counseling services to resolve academic stress |
| Asking for help from learning experts | |
| Provision of a timely intervention for dropping grades | |
| 12. Mother’s Role and Instrumental Support Perceived as Insufficient | Insufficient support for shadow education due to lack of resources |
| Being criticized by the child for lacking knowledge about college admission policies | |
| Insufficient care for the learning of the child | |
| Not meeting the expectations of the child | |
| Cooperation with husband facilitating academic intervention | |
| Experiencing differences in educational values held by mother and father |