Check on them so that you could tell them they were doing a good job |
768 |
735 |
768 |
Check on them to see if they were misbehaving |
746 |
759 |
713 |
Deliberately not pay attention when they misbehaved |
615 |
620 |
666 |
Explain to them what the rules are to try to prevent them repeating misbehavior |
638 |
635 |
674 |
Give them money or other things for finally stopping bad behavior or for behaving well |
626 |
593 |
621 |
Give them something else they might like to do instead of what they were doing wrong |
746 |
781 |
687 |
Let them misbehave so that they would have to deal with the results |
644 |
679 |
579 |
Make them apologize or say they were sorry for misbehavior |
751 |
757 |
740 |
Make them do something to make up for some misbehavior; for example, pay for a broken window |
647 |
619 |
619 |
Praise them for finally stopping bad behavior or for behaving well |
714 |
732 |
757 |
Put them in “time out” or send them to their room for a period of time |
626 |
623 |
630 |
Show them or demonstrate the right thing to do |
694 |
620 |
662 |
Tell them that you were watching or checking to see if they did something |
737 |
749 |
752 |
Punitive Survey Items |
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Give them extra chores as a consequence |
620 |
651 |
608 |
Ground them or restrict their activities outside the home because of misbehavior |
628 |
638 |
620 |
Hold back affection by acting cold or not giving hugs or kisses |
727 |
751 |
730 |
Send them to bed without a meal |
524 |
517 |
541 |
Shake or grab them to get their attention |
640 |
657 |
579 |
Shout or yell at them |
759 |
743 |
748 |
Spank, slap, smack, or swat them |
636 |
630 |
647 |
Take away their allowance, toys, or other privileges because of misbehavior |
758 |
748 |
739 |
Tell them that they are lazy, sloppy, thoughtless, or some other name like that when they behaved badly |
735 |
747 |
725 |
Try to make them feel ashamed or guilty |
665 |
629 |
660 |
Use a paddle, hairbrush, belt, or other object |
641 |
621 |
641 |
Wash their mouth out with soap, put hot sauce on their tongue, or something similar |
763 |
727 |
771 |
Withhold their allowance, toys, or other privileges until they did what you wanted them to do |
856 |
843 |
859 |